Jianjiantong media ID: jianzhong001 many absurd things in those days have become food and wine
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Thousands of rivers have water, thousands of rivers have moon, thousands of miles have no cloud, thousands of miles have sky
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As dazeng said, the past has become the past
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Life is a process full of vicissitudes
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In spring, summer, autumn and winter, Fengshui takes turns
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Time that cannot be grasped, time that cannot be held
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And some things, always after experience to understand, some truth, old age, only to find – are true
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01 old, just found: friends, not far and near, only in the heart
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Friends are like the stars and the moon in the night sky
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They shine on each other, shine on each other, encourage each other and look at each other
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Friends, that is, embedded in the silent love, do not have to meet day by day, forever is the heart to heart, do not have to flatter, nodding may be meaning, and sometimes distant phase shine, not too happy
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The writer Sanmao once said: the most beautiful relationship between friends lies in the icing on the cake; the most valuable is to send charcoal in the snow; the best among friends is like good tea, which is light but not astringent, fragrant but not pungent, floating slowly and flowing like water
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Those who want to be like-minded are not far away from mountains and seas; those who are good are not near
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A friend is a kind of telepathy, a kind of tacit understanding
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Your gesture, smile, words and deeds, even a look, an action, a back, a look back, friends will understand
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There is no need to explain each other, no need to talk more, no need to talk nonsense, no need to publicize, will be heart to heart, that is a kind of the most gentle, most comfortable, the most happy, the most beautiful artistic conception
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It’s better to read people all your life than to think about them; it’s better to be accompanied by friends because of the beautiful scenery
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When I was old, I found that to leave room for others is to leave a way for myself
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There is such a legend in ancient Greek Mythology: Faye, the son of Apollo, drove a luxurious solar car and ran wildly
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When he came to a cliff, he happened to meet the moon car
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When the moon car was about to turn around and return, faertong relied on the advantage of the sun’s strong shaft to push all the way to the tail of the moon car, leaving no room for the other side to maneuver
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Just as faertong was looking at the moon car and gloating, his own sun car came to a dead end, and there was no room for him to turn around
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It’s dangerous to go forward, but it’s a disaster to go back
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Finally, he died in a sea of fire
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We should try to make room for things and not force people to a dead end
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We should also make room for words and not talk too much
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Because there are always accidents in everything, and there is room for them, so as not to block one’s own way
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When I was old, I found that reading more books is really useful
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Borges, a famous Argentine writer, said: Heaven has given me a vast sea of books and a pair of invisible eyes
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Even so, I still secretly imagine that heaven should be like a library
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As for the usefulness of reading, the girl remembers a lecture by Zhang Xuefeng, the teacher of postgraduate entrance examination
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The host Lu Yu asked him, “do you really believe that postgraduate entrance examination can change people’s destiny, or do you start to promote postgraduate entrance examination after you do this?” His next words, clumsy and sincere, were very moving: “if you are interested, go to Qiqihar University in September and October this year to see what kind of enterprises go to Qiqihar University for recruitment; go to a school in Beijing to see what kind of enterprises go to Beijing University of science and technology for recruitment; and then see what kind of enterprises go to Tsinghua North University Big recruitment
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What kind of enterprises do they go to, how much money do they give this student, a month’s salary
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This is really the reality of the current recruitment market
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” I’ve read a question in Zhihu: “what’s the least progressive person you’ve ever met?” The most praised answer was: “the least aspiring people I have ever met are anxious about their current situation, and they have no perseverance to practice their determination to change themselves
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Three minutes heat, often hate their own failure, adhere to the most thing is not to adhere to
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They are buried in the crowd with the most common identity, but they live the most miserable life
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” Reading has never been useless, even if it can not show the role now, but the scenery in the book has become your real experience and the real wealth in your life
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One day, it will play a huge role
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When I was older, I found that health is the biggest asset
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Wealth, honor and splendor are external things; safety and health are the foundation
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In her autobiography cancer diary, Fudan female doctor Yu Juan wrote: “health is really very important
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At the critical point of life and death, you will find that any overtime work (staying up late for a long time equals to chronic suicide), too much pressure on yourself, and the need to buy a house and a car are floating clouds
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If you have time, accompany your children well, buy your parents a pair of shoes with the money from the car, and don’t try to exchange for a big house
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It’s warm to live in a humble home with people you love
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” As Yi Shu said: my destination is health and talent
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Many things are precious only when we are about to lose them
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This is true of feelings, and so is health
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So, don’t let you in the future hate you who are working hard but healthy now
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Forget what you shouldn’t remember and cherish what you have
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Leisure cooking years, fine time, in humble, live a healthy, live a wonderful
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When I was older, I found out: don’t always save the best for the last
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Sometimes you think thrift is a waste
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Because food, clothing, money and so on, will slowly lose their original value in the passing of time
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Because time won’t wait for you, when you want to enjoy life, you may find that you can’t climb to the top of the mountain in one breath
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Don’t save the best for the last, because beauty won’t stay
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Don’t wait for you to take out your flowery skirt and find that you are too old to wear it
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Don’t look for the footprints of spring breeze in autumn, and don’t look for the shadow of autumn moon in winter
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We should enjoy the most beautiful life in the right season
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No matter you are 20, 30, 60 or 70 years old, you should enjoy yourself and play in a high-profile way
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Grasp every moment now, do whatever you want, and don’t leave the best to the last! Beautiful does not stay, like the spring breeze comes and goes
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Life comes and goes, there is no future
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If you don’t enjoy it in time, I’m afraid it will change the taste and appearance when you enjoy it
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In the moon and sixpence, Maugham once said, “I’ve tried my best to live an ordinary life.”
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Like fireworks, we have seen thousands of wonderful things
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When we get old, we will be calm
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Perhaps only to go to the end to find that the original ordinary is the only answer
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If a person’s thinking is thorough, he will act smoothly, and his heart will be peaceful
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He will have desire but not cling to desire, and he will have desire but not stick to it
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He will live freely and freely
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People who live peacefully have a steady and serene heart
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The sky is bluer when the clouds pass, and the water is quieter when the boats run
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In the end, the past will turn into smoke, and the passage of time will turn over
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If you are always tangled, there is no sunny day in life
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